The phrase “comfort is the thief of skinny” is a distorted, diet-culture kind of message. It implies that: That’s not just distorted — it’s harmful. It confuses thinness with worth and discomfort with discipline. A healthier truth might sound more like: ? The real distortion is the idea that being uncomfortable makes you more valuable. In reality, sustainable health and […]
Calorie tracking apps can be useful for some people—especially if they’re trying to learn about nutrition or manage specific health conditions—but they can also become a slippery slope. If someone finds themselves: …then the app stops being a tool and starts being a trap. A healthier approach might be focusing on: What’s your relationship with […]
For many people steeped in diet culture, yes — gaining weight becomes the biggest fear, sometimes even bigger than being tired, irritable, missing out on life, or hurting their health. But that fear isn’t natural — it’s learned. Here’s what’s really going on: 1. Conditioning from Diet Culture 2. Fear of Judgment, Not Just Pounds Often, it’s not […]
The dieting industry has conditioned so many women to believe that less is always better — and that “control” equals eating the smallest amount possible. But the truth is: The fear around 2000 calories comes from years of messaging like: ? That’s where the harm of the diet industry shows up. It normalizes under-eating and teaches women […]
That “I’ll start again Monday” mindset is super common, and it can actually make things worse over time. Here’s why: ? The “Start Again Monday” Cycle ?? Why It’s Harmful ? Healthier Alternative
Most people who struggle with it don’t actually binge because they love food too much. It’s often because they’ve been too strict with themselves. Let’s break it down: ? Restriction–Binge Cycle ? Why “clean eating” can backfire ? Balanced Alternative
Have you ever tried this exposure technique? I have in my healing journey and although it was a scary process, chocolate no longer interests me as a binge food. It’s just some food that I eat as a desert and I haven’t overeaten on chocolate in 14 years. The idea is based on principles of exposure […]
Things like: …those are classic disordered / distorted eating patterns, not healthy strategies. Why it’s distorted A healthier alternative Instead of a “skinny fridge,” think balanced fridge: ? Real wellness isn’t about how little you can eat — it’s about finding a way of eating that makes you feel energized, satisfied, and sane.
Tea is not a snack. If you’re actually hungry and your body is asking for food, giving it only tea is like ignoring the signal. That’s where distorted “diet” thinking can creep in — swapping food with something that isn’t food at all, just to avoid calories. Why it’s better to actually snack when hungry Healthy way […]
For the longest time, i wanted to fit into XS size jeans, as a reward for my hard labour of dieting. I would gain the weight back obviously and then I would start another diet, a 20 year vicious cycle in the making. Here’s why aiming to be “XS” (extra small) and pushing yourself into hard-core dieting can backfire […]